Assalamu'alaikum and good morning. Hereby, I'd like to present my topic which is 'Family'.
Family. It is such a strong word. As you guys probably already know that 'F.A.M.I.L.Y.' somehow stands for 'Father And Mother I Love You' so that clearly means that our parents are the most important in our family. It is because they were the ones who decided to build their own family so here we are, living with our family created by them. Unfortunately, there are still a lot of people who don't get the chance to live with their own family or even meet nor know their own family personally and that saddens me. Moving on, the word 'Family' is a single thing but also has a lot of different meanings. People have many ways of defining the word 'Family' itself and what being a part of family means to them. Basically, families differ in terms of economic, cultural, social and many other facets but what every family has in common is that the people who call it a family are making sure that those people are important in some way to them. As for me, my family is my main priority. There won't be any nuisance that could plague the list of my priorities and my family will always be the number one on that list, forever. This is because my parents have been taken care of me since I was a baby. Because of that, deep down my heart, I knew I belonged to them and I will never abandon them as I get older in the future. I also believe that nobody will be able to tear us apart. Even though we've been through a lot of arguments and feuds, we will always get to calm things down and permeate the peace between us again no matter how bad the fight could be.
In this topic, I would like to discuss about the importance of family. One of them is having a healthy family relationship. Healthy household relationship promotes that the right habits of all family members. The first transmission of good habits comes from the parents for their children. At all household, the parents teach us an excellent practice and particular ways of acting, thinking and feeling. There are also the friends, teachers, playmates and other associates are comparatively temporary influences. Therefore, a healthy family relationship is vital towards kids. It is because kids are still innocent and also naïve. So, kids should be taught to be a good person for the sake of the future generation perhaps they would be a good leader. So, the good parents from a healthy family are also essential because they should teach their kids to be a good human-being. It is because 'an apple never falls far from the tree' means all their kids' behavior are from their parents' behavior shown to them. On the contrary, if the parents themselves are an example of the immoral parents, their kids most likely would also be a bad person based from their parents' behavior. Therefore, a healthy family relationship is crucial to produce morality among kids.
Next, the importance of family is giving earth a center! No matter where you roam, you always know that you have a home to go back to — your family home. Just like the proverb says 'dry bread at home is better than roast meat abroad' that means home is the best place. In other way, it also means that we will never be alone in this world, and always have somewhere to go whatever happens. So, in this case, we as kids for our parents should totally take care of the bond between us and our parents. This is because if we have been regarded as rebellious children by our parents, that means we are totally screwed up. In this case, we have nowhere to go. Hence, we need to always keep in touch with our parents and never ever being considered as rebellious children. That is such a tough situation. We won't be happy neither in this life nor in the afterlife as being a rebellious child is a sinner. Sometimes this sense of home is legally and financially cemented with shared ownership of the house. It depends but all that matters now is that being a good child to our parents since they have sacrificed for us financially. Not just that, there are still a lot of kind of sacrifices that they have done for us. So, we need to always be thankful for our parents' existence.
In addition, support and security are also the importance of family. Families are important because human beings cannot live solitary lives all the time. We need our family members to support and to love us, even as we love and support them in our turn. Whether you are applying for a new job or just getting over a difficult breakup, there is no denying that it is so much easier when you have your family there to support you with their love and care. Moreover, you can always count on them and also confide in them as you trust them more than anyone else in this world. So that you will be trouble-free and your life will also be less miserable. That means you don't need to bottle up your feelings or emotions while you clearly can share all your problems with your family members. I am also aware that we have friends and friends are obviously important too in our lives but let's just get over it, because 'blood is thicker than water' means our family is more important than our own friends. Our family will also boost our self-esteem no matter what thanks to their unconditional love for us. The sensation of fear exists in every single human, every one of us must feel secure. A family will provide one with protection. Soon, you will realize that your family is going to stand by you, regardless of what.
Last but not least, the last importance of family that will be discussed is aids to make decisions. Family is vital indeed when it comes to decisions. Family values will affect the decisions individuals make both in the family structure and also outside. Deciding about crucial topics can be pretty challenging and people might feel helpless if they are totally clueless which way to proceed. Consequently, having strong family values aids individuals to make the correct decisions in life. Therefore, family is important to us. For those who still have a family, they need to be thankful because 'a crust is better than no bread'. Just imagine when one doesn't even have a family, so how does he manage to decide which one is the best option to choose? That must be tough then. Because of that, we need to be really grateful having a family that is supportive in any ways. I admit that sometimes we get into a petty feud with one of our family members and maybe at that time we feel like we deserve a better family. But try to think about it, it is just a petty feud and there is no need to exaggerate the petty feud into a huge fight that somehow could tear us apart.
Finally, I would like to end this here but before that, I have concluded a conclusion. Actually, our family can be whatever we make it. Perhaps it can consist only of blood relatives or maybe if you do not have a family, then, it can also include your close friends to be your family too but just in case if all of your family members have passed away or you do not even know who or where your family is then that is fine to make your close friends as your family. Besides than that, promoting our inner growth to giving us financial support, our family will most likely help us to achieve all of our goals that we have ever dreamt of. Also, when we have our family by our side, we never need to feel that we are alone as we step out into the world. There is always a whole team of people behind us who want the best for us and who will always be there to call upon when we need someone to talk to or even a helping hand.
